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What do you do when it is becoming clearer and clearer that your spouse who is now turning into or will be your caregiver does not want the job. They are rude. Make rude comments about how they "now have to do everything" etc.. how do I get out of this situation? Have any of you been through this?

July 6
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Caregiver burnout is real, and when a spouse feels unwilling or overwhelmed, it can put serious strain on the relationship — and on you as the person living with amyloidosis. It's a tough situation, but there are options worth exploring.

Here are some steps that may help ease the pressure on both of you:

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Caregiver burnout is real, and when a spouse feels unwilling or overwhelmed, it can put serious strain on the relationship — and on you as the person living with amyloidosis. It's a tough situation, but there are options worth exploring.

Here are some steps that may help ease the pressure on both of you:

- Redistribute tasks — Reach out to other family members or friends to take on specific duties like picking up prescriptions, driving to appointments, or preparing meals
- Look into local support services — Nonprofit or government agencies may offer subsidized home health aides or respite care to give your spouse a break
- Consider professional help — A counselor or therapist who works with people managing health conditions can help both of you navigate relationship stress
- Explore telehealth options — Reducing the number of in-person appointments can lighten the caregiving load significantly
- Use practical tools — Pill organizers, phone reminders, and a caregiving binder can reduce the mental burden on a caregiver

Your own mental health matters too. High rates of anxiety and psychological distress are common with amyloidosis, and having an unsupportive home environment can make that worse.

Speaking with your healthcare team about your home situation is a good first step — they can connect you with social workers, counselors, or community resources tailored to your needs.

July 6

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